Rights of mother:
46: 15 And We
have enjoined on man to be dutiful and kind to his parents. His mother bears
him with hardship and she brings him forth with hardship, and the bearing of
him, and the weaning of him is thirty (30) months, till when he attains full
strength and reaches forty years,
31: 14. And We
have enjoined on man (to be dutiful and good) to his parents. His mother bore
him in weakness and hardship upon weakness and hardship, and his weaning is in
two years give thanks to Me and to your parents, unto Me is the final
destination.
17: 23. And
your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him. And that you are dutiful
to your parents. If one of them or both of them attain old age in your life,
say not to them a word of disrespect, nor shout at them but address them in
terms of honor.
24. And lower
unto them the wing of submission and humility through mercy, and say: "My
Lord! Bestow on them Your Mercy as they did bring me up when I was small."
2: 83 And
(remember) when We took a covenant from the Children of Israel, (saying):
Worship none but Allah (Alone) and be dutiful and good to parents, and to
kindred, and to orphans and Al-Masâkîn (the poor and speak good to people [i.e.
enjoin righteousness and forbid evil, and say the truth about Muhammad Peace be
upon him ], and perform As-Salât (Iqâmat-as-Salât), and give Zakât. Then you
slid back, except a few of you, while you are backsliders
2: 215. They ask you (O Muhammad SAW) what they should spend. Say:
Whatever you spend of good must be for parents and kindred and orphans and AlMasâkin
(the poor) and the wayfarers, and whatever you do of good deeds, truly, Allah
knows it well.
4: 36. Worship Allah and join none with Him in worship, and do good to
parents, kinsfolk, orphans, Al-Masâkin (the poor), the neighbour who is near of
kin, the neighbor who is a stranger, the companion by your side, the wayfarer
(you meet), and those (slaves) whom your right hands possess. Verily, Allah
does not like such as are proud and boastful;
31: 14. And We have enjoined on man (to be dutiful and good) to his
parents. His mother bore him in weakness and hardship upon weakness and
hardship, and his weaning is in two years give thanks to me and to your
parents, unto me is the final destination.
Bukhari :: Book
3 :: Volume 43 :: Hadith 662
Bukhari :: Book
8 :: Volume 76 :: Hadith 480
Muslim :: Book 32 : Hadith 6180 ,6181, 6187, 6188
Bukhari :: Book 3 :: Volume 46 :: Hadith 724
Disobedience to mothers/father prohibited:
Muslim :: Book 1 : Hadith
159 ,160
Ubaidullah b. Abu Bakr said: I heard Anas b.
Malik saying: The Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) talked about the
major sins, or he was asked about the major sins. Upon this he observed: Associating
anyone with Allah, killing of a person, disobedience to parents. He (the Holy
Prophet further) said: Should I not inform you about the gravest of the major
sins, and (in this connection) observed: False utterance or false testimony.
Shu'ba said. It was most probably" false testimony".
Dawud :: Book 14 : Hadith 2754
Narrated
AbuBakrah:
The Prophet
(peace_be_upon_him) said: If anyone kills a man whom he grants protection
prematurely, Allah will forbid him to enter Paradise.
Muslim :: Book 18 : Hadith 4257 ,4260
Muslim :: Book 32 : Hadith 6192, 6193
Muslim :: Book 1 : Hadith 162
Responsible for looking parents:
29: 8. And we have enjoined on man to be good and dutiful to his
parents,…..
Bukhari :: Book 9 :: Volume 92 :: Hadith 395
Bukhari :: Book 8 :: Volume 73 :: Hadith 2,4
Bukhari :: Book 9 :: Volume 83 :: Hadith 10
Malik :: Book 21 : Hadith 21.5.14
The finest act of goodness is the kind treatment of a person to the
loved ones of his father after his death
Muslim :: Book 32 :
Hadith 6192 ,6193,6194
Kindness to Parents
2: 215. They
ask you (O Muhammad SAW) what they should spend. Say: Whatever you spend of
good must be for parents and kindred and orphans and AlMasâkin (the poor) and
the wayfarers, and whatever you do of good deeds, truly, Allah knows it well.
19: 14. And
dutiful towards his parents, and he was neither an arrogant nor disobedient (to
Allah or to his parents).
46: 15. And we
have enjoined on man to be dutiful and kind to his parents. His mother bears
him with hardship and she brings him forth with hardship, and the bearing of
him, and the weaning of him is thirty (30) months, till when he attains full
strength and reaches forty years, he says: "My Lord! Grant me the power
and ability that I may be grateful for Your Favor which You have bestowed upon
me and upon my parents, and that I may do righteous good deeds, such as please
You, and make my off-spring good. Truly, I have turned to you in repentance,
and truly, I am one of the Muslims (submitting to Your Will)."
6: 151. Say (O Muhammad SAW): "Come, I
will recite what your Lord has prohibited you from: Join not anything in
worship with Him; be good and dutiful to your parents; kill not your children
because of poverty - We provide sustenance for you and for them; come not near
to Al-Fawâhish (shameful sins, illegal sexual intercourse, etc.) whether
committed openly or secretly, and kill not anyone whom Allâh has forbidden, except
for a just cause (according to Islâmic law). This He has commanded you
that you may understand.
Keep good relation with non Muslim mother:
64:14. O you
who believe! Verily, among your wives and your children there are enemies for
you (i.e. may stop you from the obedience of Allah), therefore beware of them!
But if you pardon (them) and overlook, and forgive (their faults), then verily,
Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
31: 15. But if
they (both) strive with you to make you join in worship with Me others that of
which you have no knowledge, then obey them not, but behave with them in the
world kindly, and follow the path of him who turns to Me in repentance and in
obedience. Then to me will be your return, and I shall tell you what you used
to do.
31: 15. But if
they (both) strive with you to make you join in worship with Me others that of
which you have no knowledge, then obey them not, but behave with them in the
world kindly, and follow the path of him who turns to Me in repentance and in
obedience. Then to me will be your return, and I shall tell you what you used
to do.
Don’t follow non Muslim parents/relative when it
against Allah law:
4: 135. O you
who believe! Stand out firmly for justice, as witnesses to Allah, even though
it is against yourselves, or your parents, or your kin, are the rich or poor, Allah
is a Better Protector to both (than you). So follow not the lusts (of your
hearts), lest you may avoid justice, and if you distort your witness or refuse
to give it, verily, Allah is Ever Well Acquainted with what you do.
9: 23. O you
who believe! Take not for Auliyâ' (supporters and helpers) your fathers and
your brothers if they prefer disbelief to Belief. And whoever of you does so,
then he is one of the Zâlimûn (wrong-doers, etc.)
29: but if they
strive to make you join with Me (in worship) anything (as a partner) of which
you have no knowledge, then obey them not. Unto Me is your return, and I shall
tell you what you used to do.
31: 15. But if
they (both) strive with you to make you join in worship with Me others that of
which you have no knowledge, then obey them not, but behave with them in the
world kindly, and follow the path of him who turns to Me in repentance and in
obedience. Then to Me will be your return, and I shall tell you what you used
to do.
Bukhari :: Book
4 :: Volume 53 :: Hadith 407
Bukhari :: Book 3 :: Volume 47 :: Hadith 789
Muslim :: Book 15 : Hadith 4099
Pray for non Muslim parents:
19: 47. Ibrâhim (Abraham) said: "Peace be on you! I will ask
Forgiveness of my Lord for you. Verily! He is unto me, Ever Most Gracious.
26: 86. And forgive my father, verily he is of the erring;
Show mercy/humble to parents:
Muslim :: Book 32 : Hadith 6189, 6190
Muslim :: Book 31 : Hadith 5933
Keep good relation with parents friends after their
death:
Muslim :: Book 32 : Hadith 6192, 6193, 6194
Looking for parents: son right:
Malik :: Book
21 : Hadith 21.5.14
Bukhari :: Book
8 :: Volume 74 :: Hadith 290
Bukhari :: Book 4 :: Volume 56 :: Hadith 671
Bukhari :: Book 4 :: Volume 55 :: Hadith 645
Bukhari :: Book 3 :: Volume 43 :: Hadith 662
Bukhari :: Book 3 :: Volume 39 :: Hadith 526
Bukhari :: Book 3 :: Volume 36 :: Hadith 472
Bukhari :: Book 3 :: Volume 34 :: Hadith 418
Muslim :: Book 36 : Hadith 6607
Muslim :: Book 32 : Hadith 6189 [forbid paradise], 6190
Three children died before puberty is way of Janna
their parents
Bukhari :: Book 2 :: Volume 23 :: Hadith 340
Bukhari :: Book 1 :: Volume 3 :: Hadith 101
Bukhari :: Book 2 :: Volume 23 :: Hadith 341,342, 463
Malik :: Book 16 : Hadith 16.13.39, 16.13.38
Muslim :: Book 32 : Hadith 6365,6367, 6368, 6370, 6371, 6372
Well treated for Parents
Dawud :: Book
17 : Hadith 2869
Bukhari :: Book 8 :: Volume 73 :: Hadith 7,8
Bukhari :: Book
3 :: Volume 48 :: Hadith 821,822
Bukhari :: Book 3 :: Volume 41 :: Hadith 591
Cursing parents prohibited:
Bukhari :: Book 9 :: Volume 93 :: Hadith 498
Narrated Ibn
'Umar:
The Prophet
said, "Do not swear by your fathers; and whoever wants to swear should
swear by Allah
Keep the rights of parents:
Bukhari :: Book 9 :: Volume 84 :: Hadith 55
Bukhari :: Book 9 :: Volume 83 :: Hadith 9
Bukhari :: Book 8 :: Volume 73 :: Hadith 1
Keep the rights of parents even they are not Muslim:
Bukhari :: Book 8 :: Volume 73 :: Hadith 9
Muslim :: Book 1 : Hadith 119
It is narrated
on the authority of Abu Huraira that the Messenger of Allah (May peace and
blessings be upon him) observed: Do not detest your fathers; he who detested
his father committed infidelity.
Muslim :: Book 1 : Hadith 120 ,121
It is reported
on the authority of Sa'd b. Abi Waqqas: Both of my ears heard the Messenger of
Allah saying this: He who claimed the fatherhood of anyone else besides his
real father knowingly (committed a great sin) ;Paradise is forbidden to him.
Abu Bakra asserted that he too heard it from the Messenger of Allah (May peace
be upon him).
Muslim :: Book 1 : Hadith 162
It is narrated
on the authority of 'Abdullah b. Amr b. al-'As that the Messenger of Allah (May
peace be upon him) observed: Abusing one's parents is one of the major sins.
They (the hearers) said: Messenger of Allah, does a man abuse his parents too?
He (the Holy Prophet) replied: Yes, one abuses the father of another man, who
in turn abuses his father. One abuses his mother and he in turn abuses his (the
former's) mother.
Muslim :: Book 1 : Hadith
371
Yazid al-Faqir said: This view of the Khwarij
(i. e. those who commit major sins and would be eternally doomed to Hell)
Swear/oath/vow against the father prohibited:
Muslim :: Book 15 : Hadith 4035, 4038, 4040, 4043
Dawud :: Book 21 : Hadith 3242
Clear the father [died] dept, son responsibility:
Bukhari :: Book
4 :: Volume 51 :: Hadith 40